I'll be the first to admit that I'm a clueless first time mom. When we first brought Harbor home, I was perfectly happy to sit and hold her every second of the day (or night). Everyone said, "Don't worry, you can't spoil a baby this young!" Wrong. You guys were wrong, all of you. Because my adorable baby now refuses to fall and/or stay asleep when not being held. This causes a teensy problem for this working mama when she's up most of the night
trying begging to get this tiny baby to sleep. I will say that we've got a rockin' bedtime routine down and Little Miss drifts off into dreamland very quickly with (usually) minimal to no fussing involved. However, Josh and I are trying to perfect the fine art of gracefully placing a sleeping baby in her crib without jostling her awake. After she goes to bed around 7:30, we spend the next 3 hours taking turns going back into her room to re-insert the paci or rock her as needed. I have flat refused to nurse her to sleep, she has enough bad habits we will have to break her of later. I leave her in her room until she wakes up for the first time to eat, which conveniently is right about the time we go to bed. I've stopped fighting the Pack n Play fight and just let the little spoiled baby sleep in our bed for the rest of the night. We've mastered side lying nursing, which helps me to get a
little extra sleep. But this kid is the floppiest, snortiest, squirmiest sleeper ever. And she refuses to sleep anywhere but right.up.against.me. So I basically cat nap. Let's not forget about the 4+ times she wakes up to eat and snuggle back to sleep. So sweet and precious that she loves and needs me that much, but geez I'm tired! Well this weekend I've resigned myself to end what I call the Sleep Cycle of Shame. I read this fantastic book:
Much to our surprise, it turns out that Josh and I have some pretty hippy ideas when it comes to parenting, such as co-sleeping and babywearing, so it's no surprise that we are 100% against the cry it out method of sleep training. That's where this gem comes in. Starting tomorrow, we will be completing a nap log, pre-bedtime log, and nightwaking log. Based on this we can create a plan to help her go to bed without a huge Broadway production and *hopefully* stay asleep for more than 2 hours at a time.
Here was the scene a couple nights ago when HH was still awake at 11:00 (I'm blaming teething).
Wish us luck!
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